If you are intending to provide your partner with a sensual massage then it is important that you create the right sort of atmosphere. Also, you must ensure that you are using the right kinds of hand strokes. The atmosphere in which the massage is taking place should be relaxing. Whereas the hand strokes that must be used should be the long slow types.
As you begin to feel your partner relax from what is being done over time can the amount of pressure you apply be increased?
There are certain things that you can do which will further help to ensure that the sensual feelings your partner has during the massage are further heightened. Below we offer some tips that could help the right atmosphere and also help you to perform a really great sensual massage on your partner.
When setting up the room where the massage is to take place to ensure that the room is very warm remember that your partner and may be you will be naked. If the room is warm your partner will be happy to lay back and this ensures that you can take more time over giving them a massage and be more beneficial to them.
Along with ensuring that the room in which the massage is to take place you make sure that you get the lighting correct. By having soft lighting this is going to create an atmosphere that not just your partner will find relaxing. So turn off all lights in the room not needed and light it either with some scented candles or with a table lamp that has some soft material draped over the top. Make sure that the fabric you are covering the lamp with is flame and heat retardant.
The other thing that you can do to create the perfect atmosphere in which a sensual massage can be given is to play some music. Choose the type of music that both you and your partner like and make sure that the level at which it is played won’t intrude. Choosing the right sort of music will ensure that you create an atmosphere in the room that helps you and your partner relax better.
When it comes to actually do the massage itself instead of using your hands go for some feathers or some fur. Using these allows you to touch your partner’s body far more softly and gently than would normally occur when using your hands, as you can just touch them with the very ends of the feathers or fur you use.
Another thing that you can do to make the massage even more sensual for your partner is as your hands move across their body blow on them. Along with this method helps to relax the person you are massaging further it produces feelings within them they find extremely sexual and sensual.
One other thing that can help to heighten your partner’s feelings when performing a sensual massage on them is to suck their toes or fingers. As well as many couples finding this technique very erotic it allows them to enjoy the feeling that the massage has created even more. Plus it isn’t just the person having the massage who finds this erotic the person actually performing it often does as well.